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Updates from Carlyn Lenfestey

When Words Don’t Land: How Language Changes in Dementia Affect Behavior and Daily Function

When Words Don’t Land: How Language Changes in Dementia Affect Behavior and Daily Function
When words stop working the way they used to, it can feel confusing, frustrating, and even lonely. Language changes in dementia affect more than conversation. They impact movement, behavior, emotion, and daily function. In this post, we explore how slowed processing and language breakdown show up in real life and what simple shifts can protect dignity and connection.


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Why Someone With Dementia Repeats the Same Question

Why Someone With Dementia Repeats the Same Question
When someone with dementia repeats the same question, it can feel exhausting and deeply disconnecting. But repetition is usually about short-term memory storage, not effort or stubbornness. Understanding why it happens can help you respond in ways that protect connection and reduce frustration.



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When It Feels Like They’re Not Listening

When It Feels Like They’re Not Listening
When it feels like someone with dementia isn’t listening, it can feel personal and frustrating. But what if the issue isn’t unwillingness, but attention overload? In this post, we break down why someone with dementia doesn’t listen or pay attention and how understanding attention can help you respond with more calm and confidence.


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Dementia and Movement: Why Standing and Walking Become Harder and What Actually Helps

Dementia and Movement: Why Standing and Walking Become Harder and What Actually Helps
When dementia affects movement, everyday tasks like standing up or walking can suddenly feel harder. This post explores why fear and fatigue show up first, and how caregivers can support safer, calmer movement without taking away dignity or independence.
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Dementia Affects Movement, Not Just Memory: Understanding the Physical Side of Function

Dementia affects movement, not just memory. If walking, standing, or daily tasks feel harder, it is not stubbornness or refusal. This post explains how physical changes in dementia impact function and why understanding the body can change how caregivers interpret behavior.


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Meet Carlyn Lenfestey

Carlyn is a dedicated physical therapist with over 20 years of experience, holding a Bachelor’s degree in Health Sciences and a Master’s degree in Physical Therapy from the University of New England. For more than a decade, she has been a Certified Dementia Care Practitioner and Trainer. Her journey into dementia care began when her grandfather was diagnosed, and she watched her grandmother take on the role of caregiver. Over the years, as her remaining three grandparents were also diagnosed, Carlyn developed a deep commitment to helping caregivers.

Having cared for countless patients with dementia, Carlyn understands the struggles both personal and professional caregivers face. She has provided training and support to both groups, ensuring that caregivers are knowledgeable, equipped, and empowered. Driven by the belief that people with dementia deserve lives filled with joy and purpose, Carlyn is passionate about creating a better way to care for and support both individuals with dementia and those who care for them.


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