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Sensory Overload in Dementia: Why Everyday Tasks Suddenly Become So Hard

Sensory Overload in Dementia: Why Everyday Tasks Suddenly Become So Hard
Some days in dementia care feel harder for no clear reason. When the sensory system is overwhelmed, function can fall apart. This post explains why everyday tasks suddenly become so difficult and how understanding sensory overload can help caregivers respond with more clarity and less self blame.


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Why Dementia Behaviors Make Sense When You Understand Function

Why Dementia Behaviors Make Sense When You Understand Function
When someone you care for begins resisting help, repeating questions, or acting in ways that feel out of character, it can leave you wondering what went wrong. Dementia behaviors often make more sense when you understand how changes in function shape daily life, communication, and cooperation.


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Meeting You Where You Are: What 2025 Taught Me About Dementia Care and What’s Next

Meeting You Where You Are: What 2025 Taught Me About Dementia Care and What’s Next
What if starting the new year didn’t require a fresh mindset or perfect plan? In this reflection, Carlyn shares what 2025 revealed about dementia caregiving and offers real tools, support, and one quiet challenge for the year ahead.


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You Don’t Have to Wrap This Year Up Nicely: A Year-End Message for Dementia Caregivers

You Don’t Have to Wrap This Year Up Nicely: A Year-End Message for Dementia Caregivers
As the year comes to a close, there is a lot of pressure to reflect, find lessons, and plan what comes next. But dementia care does not always fit neatly into year end summaries. This gentle reflection offers permission to name the feelings, opt out of resolutions, and let the year end without wrapping it up nicely.


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10 Communication Quick Tips For Dementia Care

10 Communication Quick Tips For Dementia Care
Caring for someone with dementia often involves overcoming significant communication challenges as verbal skills decline with the progression of the disease. However, effective communication remains possible through simple, clear speech and the use of nonverbal cues. By utilizing short sentences, maintaining eye contact, and offering gentle gestures, caregivers can ensure that their interactions remain compassionate and meaningful, offering comfort rather than frustration.

Patience and validation of emotions are key in enhancing understanding between caregivers and those with dementia. Allowing more time for responses, validating feelings, and avoiding arguments or corrections can help in reducing stress and confusion. Engaging with the person where they are, using visual aids, and creating distraction-free environments further support successful communication by making it easier for both parties to connect.

In promoting positive and encouraging language, caregivers can foster confidence and reduce feelings of failure among those with dementia. This environment of positivity paired with focusing on enjoyable aspects of communication, such as sharing laughter or a song, strengthens the emotional connection. Ultimately, effective communication in dementia care is less about perfect conversation and more about fostering genuine connection, ensuring that even as words fade, emotions and meaningful interactions endure.
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Meet Carlyn Lenfestey

Carlyn is a dedicated physical therapist with over 20 years of experience, holding a Bachelor’s degree in Health Sciences and a Master’s degree in Physical Therapy from the University of New England. For more than a decade, she has been a Certified Dementia Care Practitioner and Trainer. Her journey into dementia care began when her grandfather was diagnosed, and she watched her grandmother take on the role of caregiver. Over the years, as her remaining three grandparents were also diagnosed, Carlyn developed a deep commitment to helping caregivers.

Having cared for countless patients with dementia, Carlyn understands the struggles both personal and professional caregivers face. She has provided training and support to both groups, ensuring that caregivers are knowledgeable, equipped, and empowered. Driven by the belief that people with dementia deserve lives filled with joy and purpose, Carlyn is passionate about creating a better way to care for and support both individuals with dementia and those who care for them.


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